So our work here is done and we have headed to Managua to begin our journey home to our loved ones. We will spend one more evening enjoying, breaking bread, having devotions and recapping this week which has flown by way too fast.
We have learned so much here, about ourselves, about each other, about working as a team, and about the people here. We know that family is so much more than blood relatives. We are all part of the greater family of God and we are so grateful. We appreciate that having things is not what defines happiness and that living in a home with dirt floors doesn’t mean you don’t sweep daily. We have learned to take a good look at what we take for granted – clean water, enough healthy food for your family, access to good health care and social services, the importance of an education. And that tears can’t fix anything – only hard work and continued dedication can do that.
So many things have sent us into peals of laughter. When foul weather headed towards the construction site they joked that they would all be safe since they had Glenn with them – tall enough to be a human lightening rod. At one point on the Rhino Rally – our primary means of transportation with an open back and bench seating along the side – a sudden, unexpected stop meant Stephanie was thrown forward and we had a four human pile, where we remained for quite a few minutes because we were laughing too hard to recover. But that was just indicative of this entire week – we were always there to catch each other.
We have memories etched in our minds. People doing their first-ever devotional – and hitting it out of the park! Watching people step out of their comfort zone and pray aloud for the first time. The generosity of the Nicaraguan people with whom we worked who, having so little, still shared their food with us. The infectious smiles of the children and their joy in singing their hearts out. Seeing families be almost as excited for the gift of the box it came in as they were about the filters inside. The young mothers nodding their head as we shared new information. And Dr. Medina thanking us, time and time again, for the time we spend working for and with his people. The pride in the voice of the little boy who shouted out to us as we walked the barrio, “Hello, my friends. How are you.” We believe we are making a difference in Marañonal – it feels like a hand up, not a hand out.
We made rubber glove balloons and have a new appreciation for Miss Hawaiian Punch and Bozo the Clown. We know how to adapt – while one group has no basketball, they used a soccer ball instead, another had no soccer ball, and used a basketball. And we can tell you that what has been said for years is true, the chicken crossed the road just to get to the other side.
Goodbyes were sad because we know that the workers of El Ayudante are our family now. We will miss so much – we already do. The morning quiet time, the love we have felt here, the new friends we have made, both on the team and on the ground, and recapping the day together in the dim lights of the ranchero – with our quiet voices somehow always being audible even over the blaring music of the nearby Pentecostals.
Sometimes our tasks mean pushing ourselves through the uncomfortableness, doing the unfamiliar, and participating when we would rather not, because we are here not as individuals. We came as a team who help and encourage each other through the tough times. We were there to lighten each other’s load. We shed tears together – but we shed as many tears for joy as for sadness. We had crazy moments together, and we laughed when we felt moved – even if we were in the midst of praying. And we leave here as family.
Since this country has an election this Sunday, there were often times when trucks would drive through the streets, blaring music and shouting through bull horns. Each time we heard music some of us danced down the street – much to the amusement of the local residents. I would like to think they were laughing joyfully with us, and not at us, as we adopted the attitude of “Why walk when you can dance!” But there was one time when the tune was a familiar one. We were standing in the courtyard area of a home, having just delivered a filter to the homeowner. She said she is all alone and asked that we pray for her health as she is not well. Then Vicki called our attention to the song in the distance, Chris Tomlins’s “God of This City” – Greater things are yet to come, Greater things area still to be done in this city….. We believe that to be so.
I wish all of you could have been with us every night to hear our stories. This blog could have gone on daily for pages and pages, but even then it would be impossible to capture everything, and it shouldn’t try to. This is so much more than a trip – it is part of our spiritual journey, and can’t be fully captured in words. And it’s sometimes hard for us to put into words what this week has meant to, and done to, each of us. For me, the answer to “How was your trip?” is always, “Life changing”, for it affects me profoundly each year. Many of us will be back next year, and anyone who feels called can do this. Is God calling you?
Today started with the water filtration team accompanying Dr. Medina and our medical personnel on a house call – or perhaps a “community call” would be a better description. We ventured out to an area quite farther away where health problems are of great concern. Using a simple table as the intake, triage, and examining area, the medical team spent a few hours seeing, diagnosing, and treating ailments as they were able.
The water filtration team did not know until yesterday that we would be accompanying them, and that Doctor Medina had an added activity for us. You see, Dr. Medina knew that, as an ice-breaker activity this week at the clinic we had taught local women how to turn a t-shirt into a tote bag, and he thought it would be a wonderful idea for us to do the same with the 10 people in this community to whom we would be delivering the filters. While we were happy to oblige, we had not planned on this and did not quite have enough shirts. But that was no problem! So now there are some tote bags in this community that, yesterday, were missionary’s t-shirts! Oh, and we were pleasantly surprised to see that one of the families was represented by the father, not the mother as was the usual, but he eagerly joined in – and so did Omar, our bus driver, Oliver, our translator, and, not to be outdone, Dr. Medina himself!
We had two teams educating this week. One worked with the kids at the HCN, and the other, affectionately known as “Team Preggo”, taught pregnancy classes to expectant mothers in the nearby barrios. A highly abbreviated course in “What to Expect When Expecting”, we covered such things as body changes during pregnancy, how to care for oneself when pregnant, labor and delivery, and newborn care and breast feeding. Many of these women were not on their first pregnancy, yet they all seemed to appreciate the education that they had not been afforded prior to the birth of their other children.
In two days of classes we taught almost 30 women, many of whom brought their small children with them. At one point as Lissa taught some breathing exercises, one little girl stood behind her mother and imitated everything Lissa did. The conditions weren’t ideal. We taught the classes on an outdoor porch and at one point the rain was pounding so hard it made it hard to talk and almost impossible to hear. But whether it was the noise of the pounding rain, the blaring of speakers from trucks selling their wares, or the lilting of the children’s voices as the sang together while they colored, we raised our voices or took a short break and carried on.
Like young pregnant women at home, they were attentive and interested, oohed and ahead at the pictures of babies at each stage of pregnancy, and at times blushed and giggled when discussing uncomfortable topics. But we know we made a difference. At one point Lissa consulted the doctor – who had requested this program – and asked if there was anything we should change. He adamantly said no and thanked us for what we were doing. And this was especially brought home by our translator – Yordanka. She has been our translator for 3 years, so she has heard the lessons. What she did not know when she was with us last year is that she, herself, was pregnant. Now the mom of a beautiful baby boy, Odsyll, she told us how much she appreciated what we had taught her. She assured us, “You gave — so much!”
This year at El Ayudante they have a different theme each month for the children of the HCN. This month it was compassion, so that was the theme of our education piece. All the activities tied together to culminate in a visit to a local nursing home. The meaning of compassion was reinforced in ways such as making a “hand of compassion” – an outline of a hand on a wooden stick on which they wrote one word representing compassion on each finger. The children were highly entertained when the adults did a hilarious re-enactment of The Good Samaritan. In an attempt to bring home the idea of just how important compassionate people are, the Good Samaritan was labeled a super hero and thanks to one of our faithful supporters back home, Vicki Castells, and her creative sewing talents, each child was given a cape of their own to decorate with words and picture illustrating the theme.
The culmination of the week was a visit to the local nursing home where the children could put their understanding of compassion into play. They had prepared gift bags for each of the residents and learned two songs with which to entertain them. These gift bags consisted of such things as cookies which the children had baked earlier in the week, a coloring book, beaded crosses that the children had strung and a laminated copy of the Lord’s prayer in Spanish.
As we walked in to the inner courtyard you could see some of the children were uncomfortable. Many residents, most in wheelchairs, were already seated around the perimeter of the area. The children stayed close together and then gathered on a raised area to sing. While they were happy to sing, they were apprehensive when told they would go in small groups, along with an adult, and speak to the residents. One young girl was close to tears and did not want to participate. She told me that she was scared, and I assured her that sometimes adults are, too. So she wrapped her arms tightly around my waist and we walked to a nearby resident. I told her to just say hello, tell him she had a gift for him, and that God loves him. She needed a little prompting, and she hid slightly behind me when he reached out with his deformed hand, but I grasped his hand and spoke a few words and we moved on. I suggested we walk to the back of the courtyard to one man who was sitting alone, and she was not happy when someone beat us to him. After that she grabbed my hand and aggressively looked for someone else to whom she could share a few words – and her words were few – and this small gift. We had been told to stay in the courtyard area, but she saw a gentleman in the distance with his walker. When I told her that we were to remain here, she stood still and held her ground until her reached us. Nobody was going to beat her to it this time! His smile was radiant and he grabbed me for a hug. When I told him that the gift was from the children, he smiled at her – and she beamed right back!
As we arrived back at El Ayudante we thought it would be a good idea to debrief with the children and get their reaction to their visit. With shouts of “sharing”, “compassion”, and “giving”, they talked about the infirmities of some of the residents and the long discussion some of the boys had had with a man who explained that he could only see shadows. But I think one little girl summed it up best when she told us that one of the residents had said to her group, “You children are angels sent from God”.
As anticipated, the house was completed today. It went right down to the wire as the doors were delivered, on a horse drawn cart, at the last minute. Estebana beamed as she accepted ownership of her brightly colored house and much of the community joined us, as we once again stood together with our family from Marañonal and dedicated her new home.
We expected last night’s attendance at The Civil Conversations Project to be one of our smaller meetings due to the July 4th holiday.
It was one of our largest groups of attendees to date.
We expected to be able to hear the pre-selected “On Being” podcast segments meant to guide our discussion.
Multiple technological issues resulted in our instead building our discussion far more around each attendee’s philosophies and experiences.
We expected that, following The Portico Café’s 7 p.m. closing time, our discussion would take place in an environment of peace and quiet.
A fierce thunderstorm and The Portico’s (10-minute false) fire alarm meant altering our expectations yet again.
We persevered. Quiet was restored. The conversation carried on. And the voices of both new and regular attendees were heard.
While we all agreed on a major overarching point or two regarding “The Evolution of the Science – Religion Debate,” we each had different perspectives and experiences to offer with regard to our individual beliefs. This included sharing on and noting the impact each of our own upbringings, work, and life experiences has had on how we think today.
We listened to, heard, and learned from each other with dignity, grace, and mutual respect.
It was a wholly imperfect, yet perfectly made, evening.
The Civil Conversations Project continues 6:30 – 8 p.m Wednesday, Aug. 2. in The Portico Cafe meeting room. The podcast we will be discussing can be accessed here. All are welcome to join us with or without listening in advance.
For more information, please contact Michelle Schumacher (813.363.3970).
Saturday Feb. 25, over 30 people ran, walked and cheered wearing Hyde Park t-shirts at the Gasparilla Distance Classic. We are thankful they participated and spread the word about our church!
View photos from the race below:
The following story was provided by Melissa Torres, Assistant Director for Children’s Ministries, Preschool.
A few weeks ago The Rev. Magrey deVega challenged us all to take and fill a bucket for UMCOR. My family took our empty bucket home…and it sat on my side table. It was in the way at times, it became a base for me to pile other things onto and it got lost in the rhythm of our week. During the time it sat on that table, there were countless mentions of “don’t forget, we have to fill the bucket!”
So finally, we did. We went to the store and took our time finding the exact right ingredients. Something we thought would be a great family project quickly turned into another chore. We couldn’t find the exact ounces of one thing, we could find a package of 4 but not 7…was close enough okay or did it need to be exact?
We got frustrated with filling our bucket. We got frustrated with each other. We lost sight of why were doing this in the first place; to help others who were in need and to teach our daughter about serving.
But Hannah was not frustrated. She carried our list, carefully explaining what we needed and checking off each item as we found it.
There was a particularly trying moment where I found 42 oz and 64 oz of laundry detergent but not the 25 oz or 50 oz that was requested. I went back and forth on what to do and Hannah said, “This is for people who don’t have any right now. Give them the bigger one.” At another moment we had scoured every aisle for the right kind of gloves with no luck. So Hannah said, “That’s ok, we’ll just go to another store.”
After we found all the supplies (from 2 different stores) we went back home and put the bags on the floor in front of the bucket. Where they stayed, with the bucket, untouched.
Sunday morning came and it was time to bring the bucket back to church. I don’t know what Sunday mornings look like at your house, but mine are a bit chaotic. As we rushed around getting ready I kept thinking, don’t forget about the bucket!
When it was time to leave, I looked at the table, where the bucket had sat for 2 weeks, expecting to start the unwrapping and packing process. But there were no bags around the bucket.
The supplies had been packed carefully inside exactly as the directions had asked for and Hannah had a big smile on her face. She took pride in packing her bucket, in giving back, in showing love to others in this tangible way. We put the bucket in the car and when we parked at church and Junior started to carry the bucket, Hannah said, “Can I help?” and took the other side of the handle.
I just watched for a moment as my daughter taught me the lesson about serving that I thought I was going to be teaching her. She clothed herself in selflessness and embraced this opportunity to share God’s love to those in need.
Love God. Love others. It really is that simple. And if you are like me and KNOW that, but sometimes forget to actually DO it, give your children and opportunity to serve and watch them teach you too.
What lessons have your children taught you? Share your stories with us!
This is your first trip to Nicaragua and your first mission trip as a family. So, let’s start with what surprised you most about Nicaragua and it’s people:
Stephen: The unending happiness of everyone here.
Cadence: How poor it is.
Valynnda: That even though they have less things, their lives are really wonderful and full of joy!
Vendela: How happy the people are even though they don’t have much.
Whitt: They are happy with so little.
Mission trips will bring a lot of surprises, including surprises about yourself and how you feel about what you see and what you do. What surprised you most about yourself on this trip?
Valynnda: That I had a certain amount of envy for their simple, uncluttered lives.
Stephen: How I connected with the little children when we could not understand each other at all.
Cadence: That the little girls liked me.
Whitt: That I have more than I need.
Vendela: That I caught onto some Spanish. It was pretty cool! I could understand the words they were saying.
If you were to use one phrase to describe your trip, what would it be:
Stephen: Heart opening, mind blowing, life altering trip!
Valynnda: Life changing adventure.
Vendela: Crazy, insane, out-of-the-ordinary vacation.
So Trevor Martin has suggested that we can’t have transformation and change in our lives, without reflecting on the experiences that we have had. And this trip was certainly full of experiences that will give time for reflection for many months or years. When you think about your time here, what comes to mind first?
Whitt: Kindness & contentment.
Valynnda: Beautiful country, beautiful people.
Stephen: Everyone needs to make an effort to come here and help these thankful people.
What makes you smile most?
Cadence: Elisa not leaving my side.
Valynnda: Definitely the children! I have never been around such happy, playful kids.
Vendela: All the kids and how they all want to play whether it be soccer or baseball or just wrestling.
Stephen: The huge laughs from the children over anything & everything.
Whitt: The nica kids laughing!
What has been your best experience overall?
Stephen: Feeling the love from everyone we visited and helped.
Valynnda: Learning about the people and the Nicaraguan culture.
Vendela: Meeting friends that I will remember for a long time like Stehin and Grendy.
Whitt: Doing the dedication of the cocina that we built.
Each night we all sat down together to share our “wow!” moments of the day. This special time of reflection was key to our growing together as a team. So, when you look back over the week, what was your Wow! moment of the week?
Stephen: When I gave my sunglasses to Alvarado (working on the house addition) and he told me that God and him loved me all the way to the heavens and introduced me to his family.
Cadence: On Thursday, when I met Elisa and she was so happy when she had so little.
Valynnda: When Stephen stood up and spoke during the church service.
Vendela: When Grendy and I played tag together around the pretty courtyard (at the El Ayudante after school program).
Whitt: Visiting Mt. Sinai for the first time.
Did you notice the theme running through their responses? Joy! Laughter! Play! and Love! despite the lack of physical or tangible “THINGS”, the Nicaraguan people are filled to overflowing with love and generosity. The children are always laughing and playing and giggling. The first thing they do when they meet you is high fives and tickles. Given our complex, overscheduled, overworked lives, is it any wonder we feel a little envy for their simplicity? And we can only hope that our recognition that we have more than we need and our desire to simplify and focus on our abundance will last.
What did we do today? We almost finished and dedicated the addition to the house. It has a lovely coat of paint on the bricks, a clean concrete floor and only needs the final walls in place. The family doubled their living space and the children will have a room for sleeping. We distributed Tampa Bay Ray’s gear to all of the children and then played a family baseball game with them. We visited the beach where the sand is black from the volcano and the waves are awe-inspiring. The dinner out was a great time to relax and swim (in the pool – not the life-threatening surf!) and to enjoy a beautiful sunset.